Avoid a glove faux-pas: the etiquette of Ines Gloves



For many years, both men and women were expected to wear a pair of gloves when seen in public. To be seen without a pair of gloves was a huge social faux-pas, even considered to be indecent! Unfortunately, our modern use of gloves is dwindling - social norms are relaxing. This laissez-faire attitude has affected our wardrobe for far too long, so let us don our favorite pair of Ines Gloves and look at the rules of etiquette surrounding this must-have accessory for both men and women...

For men, it is essential to own at least 2 pairs of leather gloves: one in black and the other brown. May I suggest my man cognac driving gloves (pictured above) and my man special glace gloves? These gloves will not only keep your hands warm, but they will also add a touch of elegance to your wardrobe. Classic accessories that are always in style...

Black gloves have a more formal appeal, so your brown gloves can be worn when in a casual setting. White gloves were once a mandatory accessory when a gentleman stepped out for the evening, but the modern era has all but made such gloves obsolete.

 



For women, it is important that our gloves complement our bag and shoes in color. While we are granted more liberty and creativity in fashion, a few simple rules of etiquette apply:

~ though men must remove their gloves to shake someone's hand, a women can greet while wearing her gloves.

~ men should remove their gloves when inside.

~ past-elbow, and shoulder-high leather gloves are removed prior to eating. Remember, it is bad form to soil our Ines gloves!

~ for both men and women, gloves are properly removed one finger at a time.

The etiquette of shoulder-high leather gloves

Indulging, shoulder-high leather gloves are hot on the runway this season! Even celebrities are wearing long leather gloves throughout the year, and not just as an accessory during an awards show. Long leather gloves are an amazingly elegant addition to a strapless or sleeveless dress, and are available in a wide array of colors. Before you slip into a pair, take a peek at the rules of etiquette to avoid any style slip-ups!

- gloves are initially put on carefully in the privacy of the home.

- gloves need not be removing when shaking hands, in a receiving line, or when dancing.

- though gloves may be worn while drinking, avoid spilling liquids and ruining the soft leather. Even partially removing the gloves is recommended to avoid a catastrophe!

- gloves are removed while eating dinner, but can be replaced immediately after.

- when removing gloves, do not draw attention to yourself in an undue or seductive manner... unless that's your intention! Long gloves are very sensual, and removing them makes for a very tempting, seductive act!

- glove length: the shorter the sleeve, the longer the glove. Shoulder-high leather gloves are idelly worn with a sleeveless, sexy, little black dress or evening gown.

- black gloves should not be worn with light-colored clothes... black works best with dark, black, or bright colors.

- when gloves are initially put on, the hand should be worked in from the wrist. The glove is then gradually smoothed up the arm, rather than pulled from the top.

Glove love

It may surprise you to learn that gloves aren't just for wearing... gloves speak volumes! The appearance, texture, and style of your glove speaks to your personality, personal style, and even your mood. Beyond that, a mere flick of the wrist or a slight or gentle tap of the finger can spell romance or rejection... you decide!

Here are a few glovey interpretations that have been used throughout history to seduce and summon. Try them out for yourself!

- twirling gloves around your finger: We are being watched.
- holding the tips of your gloves downward: I wish to be acquainted.
- gently smoothing your gloves: I wish I were with you; I wish to speak with you.
- holding gloves loosely in your right hand: Be content.
- holding gloves loosely in your left hand: I am satisfied.
- striking gloves over your hand: I am displeased.
- tossing gloves up gently: I am engaged.
- tapping your gloves against your chin: I love another.
- dropping your glove: Yes
- dropping both gloves: I love you.
- turning the wrong side of your gloves outward: I dislike you.